Sexual Displays and Sexual Prowess

SEXUAL DISPLAYS

We often view young women who take actions, pictures, videos, and reels that highlight their fertility markers (mainly their breasts and buttocks) in a negative light because we see it as too much openness. What if this represents femininity in its natural state, free from the strong restrictions that have historically been placed on her sexuality? Could it be that she has always been like this, but in past societies, she would have been openly shunned, leading to repression of her sexuality?

Her sexual displays are not necessarily indicative of her being promiscuous; rather, they represent her advertising her sexual viability while still in her youth. Like any business that seeks to sell, she markets herself by showcasing what makes her a woman worth noticing and ultimately deserving of attention and support. Her sexual displays serve as advertisements demonstrating her competence in terms of fertility—similar to how a man showcases his abilities through his actions and achievements. Since a man is a doer and a woman's value is often associated with her fertility and capacity to bear children, should we not interpret her sexual displays as confirmation that she is of age and ready to mate and bear offspring? Just as the male peacock struts around displaying its feathers to attract a mate, so does the female human highlight her curves and features, which are all indicators of fertility.

Morality and Sexuality 

Morality tends to hinder what it means to be human; man-made concepts obstruct simply being. Society often establishes standards for what behavior is acceptable and what isn't. These standards may provide guidelines on how to act and behave, but they also tend to limit human expression. The topic of sexuality is one that remains quite taboo due to its unpredictable nature. Because of human insecurities and tightly held beliefs that have been passed down through social heredity, we as humans often shy away from speaking openly about sexuality, as it creates great discomfort.

With the rise of Westernization, topics and behaviors that were previously repressed and restricted are now coming to light, allowing for the expression and judgment of what was once taboo. Young women, aided by feminism and its mission for independence—which extends to sexuality—now exhibit behaviors that are hard to understand and accept due to the societal need for control. Public twerking, suggestive pictures, and sexual displays have now become common occurrences in our daily lives.

It would be unusual to see an older woman partaking in such behaviors, as they are no longer in their years of fertility and grew up in a different time. However, it is completely natural for a young woman who is of age and ready to mate. In some communities where fertility and sexuality are openly discussed, actions like twerking are entirely normal, as they are not so sexually repressed.

We may often refer to women who engage in such behaviors as promiscuous, but wouldn’t you also want to showcase what makes you a woman worthy of consideration in terms of mating and marriage through the very things that define you as a woman?

Sexual Displays and Evolution 

The female body is a sexual signaling device. African women, especially those from Southern Africa, possess some of the most appealing bodies on earth, with an evolutionary emphasis placed on their buttocks. This genetic development has greatly expanded and spread among the gene pool, allowing them to naturally develop bodies that women elsewhere have to enhance surgically. This emphasis on growing large buttocks is due to evolution—an evolution that made it beneficial for these groups of women to have larger backsides to attract mates. With this in mind, we can easily accept that their sexual displays are natural. Their biological evolution even aids them in being more effective in this by steering their genetics towards becoming more sexually viable.

This evolutionary emphasis on developing large buttocks allows women to attract the attention of potential mates effectively. If we refer to women as flowers, then their buttocks, faces, and breasts serve as their petals. They have developed features that are large and visually pleasing enough to attract mates while effectively aiding in the reproductive process and child-rearing. These features help in the courting ritual by attracting the mate and increasing his desire to pursue and mate with the female human. They assist in the reproductive process (intercourse) by providing visual stimuli through their motion, which gets the mate closer to ejaculation. They also facilitate raising children by both holding the milk in a biologically advanced storage system (the breasts) and providing a platform to carry the child on the back.

The evolutionary emphasis on developing large buttocks can also be attributed to the behavior of carrying the child. Large buttocks create a platform for the child to sit, allowing for easier movement across the environment. As we can see, evolution deemed it fit for women to develop these features, both to increase the survival and numbers of humans and to aid in the courting ritual.

When To Expect Sexual Displays 

Keeping in mind that not all women are promiscuous(hoes or whores), and not all men qualify for the best women, we can get closer to understanding why they act in this manner. Also, considering how influential the sensual movement of women is in attracting mates, it's only fair to acknowledge that what she does can either be used for good—namely, advertising her fertility, demonstrating what makes her a woman worthy of consideration, and motivating men to elevate their standing to qualify for such women—or for what would relatively be considered bad—namely, seeking unending attention, manipulating mesmerized men, and aiding in her leading a promiscuous life, etc. Sexual displays can be viewed on numerous social media platforms; a few examples would be Facebook reels, TikTok dance challenges, and Instagram posts. These somewhat meaningless dances and movements, which often lead to large numbers of women and young girls participating in them, are a covert form of sexual displays. It's not the dance that's being advertised; it's the physical features and sexual prowess of the woman. These are moments when sexual displays are highly likely:

When she's single

A single woman will engage in sexual displays to attract a mate. Usually, these women are still in their prime, although some "post-wall" women participate in them as well because it is something that cannot be separated from their identity as female humans. She will post pictures, videos, and reels online to promote herself, with the intensity of the displays revealing important details about her psychological makeup. The more reserved the displays are, the more reserved she is as a person. The more revealing they are, the more unrestricted she becomes (these are women who are serial daters, have an unhealthy relationship with their sexuality, were introduced to sex too young, often have low self-esteem, and rely on external validation). The more frequent the displays, the greater the desperation or need for a mate and/or attention.

When she's around attractive men

Whenever she's around attractive men, her body automatically engages in sexual displays. These are subtle and often involve directing attention to her prominent features. She can exhibit these behaviors even with her partner nearby, as they are instinctive, and her genes are always seeking the next genetic code to mix with. These displays usually include partially undressing, such as taking off her baggy jacket to reveal the shape of her butt more clearly, inspecting herself in the mirror, flicking her hair to draw attention to herself, revealing cleavage, speaking or laughing loudly to attract attention, and walking seductively in front of potential mates, with movement focusing on her buttocks. Women also participate in group sexual displays, which can be observed at the club through actions like one of them slapping or framing and highlighting the features of another for the men nearby to notice. Consider that women are hypergamous beings, and as long as they are in their prime, sexual displays will always be common occurrences, with the subtlety or extremity of these displays depending on the woman and the environment she is in.

At communal meetings 

In communities that are less repressed regarding sexuality, there are different rituals during which we can observe sexual displays that are accepted and expected by the local community. An example would be the Zulu Reed Dance, where virgin girls are brought together for group sexual displays. This gathering is meant to increase the chances of attracting mates for young women in their prime. The choice of bare-breasted attire and short skirts can be seen as sexual displays, as their prominent features are showcased alongside their youthfulness for the community and potential partners. 

Another example of sexual displays in a communal setting is the Tanzanian "baikoko" dance performed by women in their prime. This dance primarily aims to attract mates, confirm fertility, and highlight their sexual prowess.

Another example is the Jamaican "Daggering" dance, which simulates a rough sexual encounter and is an exaggerated display aimed at showcasing sexual prowess.

 

A local example would be the South African "Bacardi" dance, which is more reserved and includes highlighting the bounce of the female's buttocks and displaying the youthfulness of her thighs.

When she's with friends

When a woman is with her friends, they are more in tune with their feminine side. Words cannot describe it, but one could compare it to how men can connect better with their masculinity among other men. In groups, women can attract more attention due to their numbers and the large number of booties. When together, they are usually less reserved than they would be on their own, and their sexual displays are more direct if one knows what to look for. The targets of these sexual displays are often lured in with eye contact or verbal invitations to conversation, leaving no question as to who it is meant for. The objective of group sexual displays is to increase the chances of the individuals in the group finding a mate. Group sexual displays are often done in environments with a large number of people, like clubs or social gatherings. Groups partaking in sexual displays bring attention to the physical features of their "girlfriends." In crowded places, women often use group sexual displays to lure potential mates. Due to the approach anxiety latent in men, only the most confident men ever approach (this is often tied to their performance in the material world). Below are examples of group sexual displays:

When she's with a weak man

Women in their prime are constantly looking for an upgrade, so if the man she's with is not up to par or she thinks she can do better, she'll carry out sexual displays to advertise herself for the next one. In these cases, the men she's after are an upgrade; in a sense, he has to be better than the man she's with, or else he'll get ignored if he tries to approach. By "better," it could mean more exciting, more money, better sexual performance, better genetics, etc. Remember, hypergamy does not care about your feelings, and there is always someone better out there. So, if you catch your woman in the act, it is better to let her go than to run faster on the hamster wheel trying to keep her. Sometimes, it is not influenced by the man she's with but rather her psychology, where she might be in constant need of attention.

During mating rituals

A lot of people find themselves addicted to club life due to the "fun" they have there. This form of fun, however, revolves around a mating ritual. It includes courting and typically ends in mating for most, so it qualifies as a mating ritual. In clubs, everyone is less restricted due to intoxication, so they are more natural in their behavior—free from the need to conform to certain expectations compared to other social settings. This freedom allows for courting signals to be sent, and these include sexual displays. 

Men (who act as performers in terms of gender dynamics) display value by purchasing alcohol and other items that can hint at their social rank, signaling their worth to female onlookers. Men who spend the most are perceived to have more resources, so women tend to gravitate toward them based on primal instincts. Remember, we are animals before we are humans. Women display value through sexual displays; it's a trade-off based on an exchange involving sexual prowess and markers of wealth. Throughout the night of fun, sexual displays are spread out throughout the venue, and various forms of sexual displays can be observed. Below are a few examples of sexual displays at the club; these displays are part of a mating ritual, illustrating the human mating ritual in action. Sexual displays also occur in the bedroom, which is the final phase of the mating ritual.

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More on Sexual Displays

The argument is that these sexual displays are natural and not necessarily a sign that a woman is a hoe or whore. Nor does it always signal that she is on the market. Sometimes she just wants to have fun and dance, and sometimes these dances are sexual displays. It is wise to proceed with caution, only approaching when numerous courting signals have been given. Like a car that needs its engine to warm up, courting signals are necessary to ensure the courting ritual commences smoothly.

Often, as men, we find it both appealing and off-putting due to the emotions it stirs up in us. I think this viewpoint of labeling women as hoes and whores stems from a need for control and the old desire for exclusive rights over a woman's sexuality. In some places, mainly the Middle East, women's sexuality is still something dictated by the men in their lives. Unless we are willing to take away something so integral to her identity as a woman, I think we should accept and appreciate the female in all of her intricacies, realizing that through understanding, we can grasp a clearer picture of the things that happen around us, including the actions in which we partake. Truth be told, we live in less repressed times where women can exercise their sexuality alone among themselves or online by shaking their bodies and posting provocative pictures or by being with as many sexual partners as they wish (keeping in mind the social repercussions of such actions, namely, a lower social value, a bad reputation, and sexual diseases).

Soon she will grow out of this need to advertise her sexuality—whether that happens as soon as she is out of her prime or when she is off the sexual marketplace (SMP)—while she is in her prime, we really shouldn't judge her for her actions as it's completely natural on a biological level. We can adopt this new perspective while keeping in mind that there are those who require constant sexual attention due to numerous factors, including early molestation, low self-esteem, or simply wanting to move from man to man, etc. I think we know a whore when we see one, but there are those who are just being natural in their sexual displays. Just like you would like to show off your muscles after a hard workout at the gym, so does she with her body and physical attributes as she enters her age of fertility.

Negative effects of sexual displays

Public judgement 

Due to the lack of understanding regarding these behaviors, people observing sexual conduct may judge those who engage in it. Society often labels women and young girls who perform sexual displays as sluts or whores, but this is completely natural, considering the context and the intentions of the woman. Like any business, advertising is important for attracting customers. Unlike prostitutes who openly sell sexual encounters, the average woman simply engages in sexual displays to attract a partner or a lover for the night. The idea that there is a one-size-fits-all way of being for women is greatly limiting, resulting in judgment against those who exhibit different types of behaviors. Ultimately, society needs to understand that women own their bodies and can do whatever they wish with them, as long as they are aware of the consequences.

Unhealthy reliance on Sexual Displays

Like all things, sexual displays have both positive and negative aspects. Too much reliance on sexual displays to gain attention results in addiction. The dopamine released when women receive validation for their physical features often leads to an insatiable need for validation that only grows over time. In a sense, using sexual displays to attract attention becomes like a drug, and to feel desired and validated, women often tend to increase their sexual displays, revealing more and doing so more frequently. With the advent of social media, this is true for many women and young girls. With this newfound hyper attention, some even dedicate their social media pages to cater to the "needs" of men who are hooked on their sexual displays. The addiction goes both ways; as men seek more and more erotic stimuli, women escalate the brazenness of their sexual displays, even going as far as OnlyFans or other forms of pornography. A healthy approach to sexual displays is necessary, as it can backfire on the doer, resulting in consequences such as loss of reputation, negative changes in public perception, dopamine-fueled validation addiction, increased contact with undesirable mates, and lower sexual market value.

Beyond the need for open sexual displays

A mastered woman

A mastered woman is one who is in control of her natural urges to engage in sexual displays. She can be sexy while remaining reserved, which is quite rare the younger a woman is. She engages in sexual displays only in the private company of the man she deems worthy of her. Most men think they are worthy of such a woman, but only a mastered man can handle a mastered woman. Otherwise, a mastered woman will despise having to mother an unmastered man, as she will have to reduce herself to meet the unmastered man at his level. With men, it’s different; he can help an unmastered woman transform into a mastered one through grooming. For a mastered woman, it’s either you are a mastered man, or she will be without you. The younger the woman, the more likely she is moldable. The older she is, the more set she becomes in her ways.

The mastered woman is a woman who breathes life into the mastered man's already built kingdom. A mastered man understands that in order to have her as a queen, he needs to have a kingdom built, both in his mind and in the external world, which will allow the queen to thrive. You cannot expect a mastered woman to understand your incompetence or a lack of a kingdom, as it is disrespectful.

"Biting off what you can't chew will lead to you hating the very thing you can't swallow because you force it into your mouth while you are not ready for it."

An unmastered man is better off settling for an unmastered woman, as he won't be able to handle a mastered woman, nor will she allow him to. Relationships between a mastered man and mastered women resonate through numerous generations; their relationships influence the relationships of their offspring for generations to come, leading to strong families instead of the chaotic families unmastered men and women leave behind. Together, they provide teachings and structure and amplify each other's powers.

Returning to sexual displays, the mastered woman does not advertise her availability to men through sexual displays like a young fertile woman does. She could be young, but those sexual displays are reserved for her man. Not because that is what the man wants, but because she only wants her man to look at her that way; in fact, unmastered men often repulse her. Only her man knows the jiggle of her body, how sexy she looks in undergarments, how she moans, and how her vagina looks with legs spread, etc. This is exactly how she wants it. Such women do exist, but they are rare. To qualify for one, you have to be a mastered man, build a kingdom, and cultivate your inner world so you can handle her. If you can't find one as a mastered man, you can always choose a potential young fertile woman and groom her into a mastered woman. Otherwise, stick to unmastered women, as the mastered woman will hold you to a standard.
Don’t delude yourself into thinking you’re a mastered man or woman if your sexual urges hold you prisoner. The mastered man and woman constantly engage in voluntary celibacy; an inability to get laid does not make you a mastered man or woman, but it can bring you closer to it. Mastered men and women consistently reject the advances of the unmastered not because they don’t want to but because they see no use in wasting their sexual energy on the unmastered. Sexual energy is important, and semen retention is something the mastered man consistently practices. He would much rather reject the unworthy than take care of an itch; the same goes for the woman. There are many benefits to semen retention; this will be explained in another blog.

Also, understand that attraction to more than one person is natural. Impulsive people often indulge in the many opportunities to engage in sexual acts with those they find attractive. This behavior is completely natural; however, it still exists at the base level of human behavior. The mastered individual challenges themselves enough to develop the discipline needed to stay in control of their actions and decide whether or not to give in to desire. The mastered individual is one who has full control of themselves, understands their biological motivations, and rises above them to determine their fate without the influence of their subconscious minds.

 

SEXUAL PROWESS 

Sexual prowess is something everyone feels insecure about. Both men and women constantly judge their sexual prowess based on how they believe others will perceive them, mainly their sexual partners and people they find attractive. Women also care about the opinions of those they do not find attractive, as this can boost their confidence. The insecurity regarding sexual prowess is greater in women because, in the past, their survival often depended on it. Since women deemed as having great sexual prowess had higher survival rates, being perceived as lacking it greatly affects them.

The Genders and Sexual Prowess

With women, it is mainly an insecurity revolving around how attractive others think they are, as well as their performance—with fertility being an afterthought since questions about it arise after the sexual act. To attract a mate, complete the courting ritual, and have a successful mating experience, a female's sexual prowess is very important. The lack of it would result in: 1. a lower number of mates pursuing her; 2. men not finding her attractive enough to complete the courting ritual; 3. men not being turned on by her, which ruins the chances of mating. The absence of sexual prowess would lead to the woman being alone for a significant part of her life. Typically, she would have no children and minimal or no masculine support. A woman with no sexual prowess would be one that no man truly desires. Fortunately, the vast majority of women possess some sexual prowess, with levels varying due to different features. However, many women with sexual prowess tend to find themselves alone, highlighting the fact that relationship cohesion relates to other factors in conjunction with sexual prowess.

With men, it's mainly a performance issue, considering those who have bigger tools or larger physiques. Thus, the possibility of someone being able to perform and please their women better becomes a significant source of insecurity. Due to its external placement, its size is easy to judge and compare, in contrast to the female genitalia, which is internal and requires granted access for evaluation. This allows for somewhat greater insecurity in men concerning these comparisons, which can often be harsh—women sometimes tend to take pleasure in diminishing a man's confidence by using his performance anxiety against him, humiliating him, and referring to his genitalia as small, thereby leading him to question his performance ability. If larger means "more," then men with smaller members are often insecure about their sexual prowess because there is always someone out there with a larger penis. It would be wise for such men to consider that women often derive great pleasure from sexual relations with other women, which begs the question: does size really matter? Or is it the way the tool is used and how sexual encounters are approached by both partners? I'm no sexual expert, but listen to your woman, and she'll let you know how to please her. Listen to each other's bodies and take time to learn about one another instead of rushing to penetration as soon as you've got an erection.

Rejection and sexual prowess 

Women, in general, suffer greater insecurity regarding whether their desired mate finds them attractive. From personal experience, I can say it really hits her hard when her sexual displays go ignored, especially when she uses them to try to attract a mate. She would much rather reject the advances of a man she doesn't want than face rejection from the man she desires. Since females are often pursued by many men, their confidence often rebounds, but they also make it seem as though they are the ones doing the rejecting, rather than being rejected, unless it's completely apparent to everyone watching.

"This defensive gesture in response to rejection can be observed in both genders and is tied to group dynamics. An undesired mate would be deemed undesirable by others, so to save face, the rejected individual often resorts to loud displays of insults and behaviors that make it seem like they are the ones carrying out the rejection. This would have increased their survival in more primitive times."

Men are often more accepting of their limitations, even if it comes with some insecurity; they can recognize a superior physical specimen. Some, however, experience greater insecurity and even go out of their way to discredit such men by shaming their women for desiring them. This often works to keep their women for themselves, reducing the scrutiny that comes with their smaller tools or inferior performance. In some parts of Europe, prostitutes who sleep with African men are often judged as having less value after the sexual encounter. This results in the prostitutes rejecting business from black men.

Women are more brutal in this regard and even go out of their way to try to destroy or diminish those women who greatly exceed them in sexual prowess. The competition is tighter among women since they don't need to perform much, and their desirability is not easily adjustable, as it is almost entirely dependent on their genetic draw. One can liken this to winning the lottery, as no one chooses the body they are born into. Men can always upgrade or elevate their social standing, allowing them access to women they otherwise wouldn't attract based on their inherent genetics. An example would be "Skomota." We can all agree that most men are better-looking than him, but some considerably attractive women make themselves available to him due to his increased social standing.

With women, physicality is important, with those who possess a good genetic draw often spiting those without. An example would be the women who believed Gigi Lamayne was a downgrade for Reason. This is not because she isn't pretty, but because they consider themselves more attractive than her; their logic concludes that this makes them a better choice for Reason. It was all a matter of sexual prowess.

Societal expectations that come with Sexual Prowess 

(From a purely physical perspective the woman in the orange would be viewed as having more sexual prowess, even though they are both very attractive young women).

 

The greater a woman's sexual prowess, the higher the expectation society has for her to attract a man of considerable wealth or status. This expectation decreases based on the woman's physical attractiveness. 

Women with lesser sexual prowess often resort to flaunting money they have earned or accumulated to surpass women with greater sexual prowess, showcasing their intellect, and striving to be individuals separate from their sexual identities. An example of this is the not-so-attractive girl boss; she is extremely ambitious to compensate for her lower sexual prowess, which increases her chances of survival if she is unable to attract a mate.

Another example includes older women with reduced sexual prowess, who often try to undermine younger women with higher sexual prowess to diminish their competitiveness in the sexual marketplace. This can manifest in acts such as shaming men for their attraction to younger women. Some mothers keep their daughters indoors to lower their chances of meeting men who could elevate them. Additionally, some friends or mothers encourage debauchery to tarnish their daughters' reputations, thus reducing the quality of their suitors. In extreme cases, we witness sabotage, where individuals ruin a woman's face or body with substances like acid or through physical attacks; some even resort to outright murder. Occasionally, deeply insecure men respond in these aforementioned ways after experiencing rejection.

A victim of an acid attack.

 

As we can see, women tend to be more ruthless when it comes to sexual prowess. Understand that society will judge your sexual prowess against that of your partner; also understand that there will always be someone with more sexual prowess than you or your partner. As men, we can be comforted by the knowledge that our sexual prowess mostly only comes into account in the bedroom, while for women, it determines how her daily life is lived. 

I remember a girl, let's call her Sam, whom I used to pay attention to because her brother was my friend. I didn't find her attractive enough to pursue, but I was polite enough to engage in conversation with her. I am not a RUG; in fact, I'm quite handsome, but this was a time when I wasn't consciously aware of how the social marketplace (SMP) really worked. Other women or girls, including one of the female teachers who found me attractive, would constantly undermine her and make fun of her. Back then, I didn't know what it was about, but now I realize it was a matter of sexual prowess. I kept to myself and wouldn't engage with these women who were attracted to me because I’m very picky about whom I like enough to pursue. The fact that I engaged with Sam led to these women becoming infuriated and making fun of her because they were jealous I would engage with her. They also assessed their sexual prowess as higher than hers.

Understand that sometimes people make fun of your partner or the person you like because they believe their sexual prowess is higher. I'm sure we've all engaged in such behavior at some point in time. However, the tune changes when the partner's sexual prowess is higher; we are usually more accepting of such relationships because of how we view ourselves in comparison to the other person. 

I also remember that I was somewhat naive in those days. One time, I was chilling with a not-so-attractive female 'friend.' These two fine women looked over and laughed, and I didn't know why. But now I do—it was because this girl, who had less sexual allure than them, was using me as an emotional tampon. Not only did they think I could do better, but they were also laughing at my naivety, believing their sexual prowess was superior.

There is wisdom in everything that happens in the social world. We might view things as hate, but usually, these experiences tell us a lot about ourselves and the world if we can pay attention and interpret the information that’s always floating around. To conclude, I say that sexual prowess is a sensitive subject. Men carry it on their shoulders, but it's mostly zipped up and kept out of sight. Women carry it everywhere, reflected in their hips, booties, breast sizes, thighs, and faces, resulting in greater insecurity for them. No one asks to see men’s penises in public, but we are always looking at women’s physical features. Both men and women engage in such behavior; one might call it unfair, but it's all biology. Men observe to assess fertility and potency, while women observe to compare.

The image below is an example of this. What thoughts do you have while watching her go about a random activity in public? What’s the first thing you notice? How does that change or affect your perception of her? Do men experience the same thing in this context? Leave a comment below.

 

Sexual prowess comparison can lead to great insecurity, but as a man, rest assured knowing that you can elevate your social standing to access women who are higher up on the scale. Also, understand that regardless of your sexual prowess, some people will never be satisfied. These are the women with a large number of dildos and vaginas that are desensitized, and men who constantly masturbate to different women, continually comparing the natural with the plastic and surgically altered. Accept yourself, your size, your physical features, and your abilities. Work towards upgrading what you have through physical exercise, as muscles help shape your look and increase the perception of your sexual prowess.

Women can start doing squats to elevate their booty game, putting on weight, and strategically shedding and shaping it to their desire. Men can start working out and doing cardio to increase their physical performance. At the end of the day, good health contributes greatly to one's sexual prowess. A woman in great physical shape will always be more attractive than an obese or overweight one. A man who has put on muscle will always be more attractive than a man who looks like a twig. Understand this in relation to purely physical attraction; attractiveness involves more than just the physical.

This unhealthy comparison can result in people seeing artificial enhancements as a way to even the score. These can include cosmetic surgery, makeup, as well as other external add-ons. Khanyi Mbau is an example of a woman who can't accept her declining sexual prowess. I'm sure we can all agree that she would be better off without these unnecessary enhancements. It seems as though she is in a war against age, and unfortunately, time always wins. When your time comes, bow out and let the new players have the playing field.

Moving forward with this knowledge 

With women, understand that their battle for sexual prowess is deeper than ours. Since they encounter it everywhere they go, one can appreciate their emphasis on putting in increased effort into their physical appearance. Nothing will make a woman want to show off for you like complimenting her on her sexual prowess in a respectful manner instead of the drivel of a perverted individual. It would be wise to do this only with women with whom you are in a relationship.

Defend your woman from jealous competitors and build up her confidence instead of taking from it. Since her validation depends on the perception that her man or other men find her attractive, be the guy who tells her she’s sexy, even if she’s just a twig. If you’re a woman, you might want to do the same for your man, encouraging your partners to love themselves while working on their bodies in a healthy manner.

Also, raise your daughters in such a way that they don’t need validation from compliments on their sexual prowess to feel confident. Too much emphasis on the physical body is never a good thing. Since how our bodies turn out is mostly out of our control, it is wise to adopt a different outlook regarding our judgments of others. Focus on the things you can control, like your health and physical fitness, letting your insecurities become whispers instead of loud voices that keep you up at night.

That is all.  
 

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